A Word For 2012

I sit rocking in the chair with the tiniest one in my arms.  He’s tired and needs a bit of attention while the older ones do math and the younger ones have an activity to keep them busy.  I start to hear the voices increase and hear feet all around, running around the room and going down the stairs.  For a moment I feel defeated.  I’ve only ask them to work quietly while I get the baby to fall asleep.  Was that really too much?

My mind goes back to January 1st.  That day that we sat in our bedroom and resolved to ask God to help us with things this year.  My thing, seeing the everyday blessings and thanking Him for them more purposefully.  I start to name them out loud, I talk to myself over the muffled noise of feet from the next room.

1.  these tiny feet cupped in my arms

2.  those big feet doing division in the schoolroom

3.  those slightly smaller feet matching Dominos in the floor

4.  the quiet of this room

5.  doors that close away the noise

6.  a husband who willingly takes a son to an orthodontist appointment

7.  Him walking with us during changes

8.  His sacrifice

9.  His promises, kept, always

They keep pouring out just like the breath of this little one, now sleeping peacefully.

In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. 1Thessalonians 5:18

My word for this year, Praise.

Book Review: Christ-Centered Christmas by Hal & Melanie Young

I’ve talked here before about Hal and Melanie and their book Raising Real Men and how it has made such an impact on how we parent, the way they use their words to point us to the biblical parenting of our sons has been such a blessing to us.  So, when they offered up their new eBook Christ Centered Christmas to those willing to write a review I jumped at the chance.

Christ Centered Christmas

In our family I feel as though we are still working our way through making some Christmas traditions.  We have a few but not as many as I would like.  The Young’s book is chock full of their family traditions they were even kind enough to include their family recipes, decorating ideas and carols.  There is a recipe for tea that I will be making this year, it sounds delightfully yummy.  The common theme though with their traditions  is, it’s all about Him, which is exactly what I want for our traditions so I’ll definitely be taking some of their tips.

“We decided right then, long before we had children, that each year we would choose an ornament that would remind us of God’s doings in our family that year.”

Yes!  I love that, just a simple way of putting down those markers to remind us of what God has done and then being able to remind our children of them each year.  That is truly priceless.

We’ve made a push in our family the last couple of years to slow down at Christmas and focus our time and energy on things of Christ instead of all of the other stuff that is associated with Christmas and we’re making some progress.  If that is your desire for Christmas I would highly recommend Christ-Centered Christmas by Hal and Melanie Young.

Thank you to Hal and Melanie at Raising Real Men for, once again,  sharing your knowledge and know-how with us!

Courting

I’m not going to get into a long discussion on courting vs. dating tonight, but did want to share a little insight with you.  The boy’s character study this week was focused on loving your wife.  I went ahead and took over teaching that one.  I may not know exactly how to do it, but I try hard.  We got into a long discussion on what courting was and ow it differed from dating.  We looked in the Bible at husband and wife relationships and talked about how they honored or sinned against God.  Sampson & Delilah, Adam & Eve, Boaz & Ruth, Job & his wife and Lot and his wife.

We then moved on to identifying characteristics of a good wife or things we should look for in a wife.  We talked about outward appearance and inward traits.  B1 started out with she needed to be a Christian.  B2 followed with she must be in Church.  Then back and forth with she needed to like kids and a few more.  The boys got quiet, obviously thinking hard and B2 blurted out, “not have a criminal record.”

Needless to say, it has been a fun discussion.  I’m pretty sure we won’t let him forget that one any time soon!